I wonder how many of the women who read this blog are the primary “Santa’s Helper” for Holiday merrymaking in their family? I used to love to do it all; decorating, shopping, baking, wrapping, sewing, writing cards or the “annual letter” - and all while being married (hubbies can be work too, amiright?), raising three kids and holding down a full-time job. I bet many of you did, too. Were we wonder women or something?
For Bruce and me, our respective first marriages failed, and together we blended the last of the unfledged teens into a new family. In time, they too fledged and we were empty nesters. It was easier and simpler as the years passed to downsize the tree, decorate minimally, and hand out cash and gift cards at Christmas to our kids and ever growing list of grandkids. And forget the baking, cooking and sewing!
But we’re changing things this year. It’s been an expensive year with the move from the old house to the condo, and the subsequent remodeling and furniture purchases, etc.. Bruce and I both agreed that it’s now the time and season -literally and figuratively - to slow down, be more deliberate and enjoy the spirit of Christmas. This December, we’ve reached our stop on the Big Spending Train and we’re getting off.
We started by cutting our gift budget to about 1/3 our usual amount and informed our adult kids. Surprisingly, or maybe not-so-surprisingly since we tried to raise good humans, they were beyond cool with it. One asked me to bake biscotti, another one requested a quilt (done!) and another one wanted some old family pictures and such.
And so that’s the theme of this post. I’ve been working as a secret elf for Santa!
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In the Sewing Department of our Santa’s workshop, Elf Cathy finished sewing together this quilt top of bright scraps:
The size is 40.5” x 50.5”, and the top has been put on the Sewing Department Schedule to be basted for quilting next week. The eventual quilt will be donated to Quilts for Kids.
Next, the assignment was to complete between 10-12 quilted zipper bags for gifting over the next couple weeks. Elf Cathy was able to completely finish seven of them the first week. They’re all box-bottomed and of varying sizes. Shown below on their sides, not the most flattering view.
The remaining five zipper bags are all cut out - fabric, fleece, lining and tabs, and ready to be assembled next week.
As for the Cooking Department, the elves have worked out a four-variety selection of biscotti, a modest ingredient shopping list, and a timeline. And already a whole turkey sits in the freezer, waiting for its turn to shine golden brown. (Oooh, I’m making myself hungry!)
The Decorating Department sent an elf to help the North Pole Homeowners Association decorate their clubhouse. As a reward, an old wreath with jingle bells that was being thrown out was brought home by said elf to be used on their front door.
The seasonal merriment has just begun here, and life is good! How are your elves faring?
Linking to the Rainbow Scrap Challenge.
10 comments:
The elves at our house have been happy to "downsize" over recent years, too! That's a bright and pretty quilt, Cathy. Love all your zipper pouches, too. They make wonderful gifts. Happy holiday season!
What wonderful kids who chose gifts that have way more meaning than anything you could buy.
The elves here are still hoping to get some decorating done! We managed to get Thanksgiving & fall down this week, so now there's room for Christmas. The hubby says if we don't get it done soon, there won't be much of December left! This is the problem with being old & tired, but still having a spouse working full-time. Limited time & energy! LOL
We have also cut back [after learning our lesson finally at
Thanksgiving this year!!] No more big meal cooking here--and more time to enjoy the slower paced Winter days during the run up to Christmas.
I've noticed this year that even my Christmas card list has dwindled to a "precious few..." time marches on....
We now have two little pre-lit table top trees and have gifted our big tree and most ornaments to my daughter for her new home...
Maybe it's the cold I'm fighting right now, but find that I am so tired of any hoop-la...
anyhoo...;))) Love that little quilt made with such cheerful bright scrappy pieces...I started a "Bluesey" Ojos just for fun and I plan to make smaller scrappy pieces this coming year...
Take care and enjoy your newly found freer times...hugs, Julierose
We were doing well at downsizing the festivities but then....four grandies appeared on the scene. RC insists on having a tree (which I would happily do without in favour of just the nativity set but what can I do). We won't have anybody here for Christmas so we've decided to not bother cooking a huge meal and plan on buying pre-made beef wellingtons which we just have to heat up. We'll pick up a pre-made dessert of some sort too. Easy is good!
I will confess that Christmas has never been a "happy" season for me. As a self-confessed perfectionist, I never lived up to my own unrealistic standards. And I hate, well, dislike, (I'm trying to ban the use of the word hate) shopping, except at quilts stores, and even that has been greatly curtailed. All 9 grands live in TX and I'm in NY, so checks and gift cards quickly replaced chosen presents.
We always had real Christmas trees, but now I have several small table top trees. I have bins of decorations, but bring out fewer every year. I don't bake because there's no one to eat the stuff. My late husband even bought me a pin that says "Bah, Humbug". I don't begrudge anyone their celecbrations. I'm just happy to not be a part of them very much.
Pat
Happy to hear that you respect your limits and downsize the stress level this season can bring along with the glitters. Who said it has to be big and fancy to be enjoyable? No one. We've been enjoying very low-key holidays for years now.
I love your bright and purple quilt. It will be a hit I'm sure. Love your zippy-pouch. I need to make bags and I just can't get myself motivated. Do you know a trick? Enjoy! ;^)
Coming from a very small family, there were never any 'December-stress'. At Christmas Eve, we were usually only 5 persons. When I grew older, I exchanged gifts with a couple of dear friends and I still do. I understand having a big family causes stress this time of the year. We just have to do what we feel are right for us. No stress here, since it is just the two of us. My DH's family usually give money to the already grown up kids as NY's gifts. We are not on the bandwagon doing that. Enjoy a peaceful December together with your DH.
we too have downsized and baking is being downsized even more - small family here with only 2 children and one divorced now so even less in the family - only a couple grown grandchildren that we rarely see so gift cards to them and our girls I bake some too- I do not make gifts as it causes me stress to try to get done on time - even decorating is less this year -- visiting with the kids will be enough for me!
The purple-square quilt is delightfully bright! Our family is small and gift-giving has boiled down to sending a big box of holiday food to sister and to daughter. (This year we ordered from Usinger's in Milwaukee. I asked for delivery after Dec. 10 and got notice Friday (Dec. 6) that both boxes had arrived at their destinations. Sigh.) Daughter's equally big box (Stonewall Kitchen) was on our doorstep Thursday. No inter-spousal gifts anticipated at our house. That's just fine.
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